Learning to Recognize Your Ego
What is an ego?
Well, in case you did not know it, we all have one. The ego
is the logical sane part of your mind that permits you to
separate yourself from folk. You employ it every day to guage
eventualities, folk and circumstances in the method of making
sane calls.
When I assert "I am Sonia Devine", I'm identifying with this
part... MY ego.
Infrequently the Ego is related to an inflated sense of
pride or audacity. As an example, when we discuss somebody who
is behaving arrogantly, folks frequently say this person has a
"huge Ego". But it is a ton more than that. It's got a definite
purpose. It is in charge of arranging the different parts of
the Self to form some wholeness and integration. All of us need
this to function effectively as homo sapiens. So how can this
fit in with your self esteem? When we focus too much on this
part, we start to become separated from the rest of humanity,
and outside forces have more control over us.
For example, does the quality of your self image rely on any
of the following?
- How much money you have
- What you do for a living
- Who you know
- How you look
- Where you live
- What kind of car you
drive
If you are outlined by what you do as a living, then your
self image is at the beck and call of this factor. So if you
lose your job, where does this leave you? Would you continue to
like and respect yourself if you were broke? It is in your
nature to be conditioned to go after these superficial
accomplishments, but I can let you in on a secret ; they have
completely nothing to do with who you are! You are so way more
than your physical body. Your soul is perfect just as it is,
and it will continue to live on after you exit the Earth. Every
one of us are connected by collective consciousness. When
you're ready to see past the ego, you learn how to cultivate
true self-reliance. You accept yourself as the perfect being
that you are AT this very MOMENT- not for who
you'll be when you have had your hair fixed or gotten in with
the right crowd.
When you can get past the ego, you experience true self love
- and this comes from your higher knowledge.
Your understanding, your compassion, your strength are
perfect - and these things are permanent.

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